Pastor Oladejo said the Lord told him he should tell you that if you change the glory of God to look like corruptible man or to look like birds, or four-footed beasts, you are not going to come to heaven. You are changing the glory of God into dogs, goats, cows, animals, and into creeping things. You are committing immorality. It’s a great sin. It doesn’t matter if you are a pastor, bishop, or archbishop. You are not going to make it. Do not change the glory of God into anything on your matrimonial bed or you are not going to heaven.
The Missionary Position the Only One Holy Fourthly, it is well known what the “missionary position” is and why it is called that, for the reason this pastor explained. Missionaries of old who taught their converts about true holiness would teach them that in the marriage bed, face to face with the husband on top is the only position that God has sanctioned. That is a landmarker or boundary stone that was laid by people before this evil generation was born that you and I who live today are a part of. That was a boundary stone. We have moved that stone, so we could try new things to fulfill our lusts. We need to Ask for the Ancient Paths. The Marriage Bed Must Be Kept Pure Fifth, it says in the Bible, “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.” (Heb 13:4). You can defile the marriage bed by acts you commit by yourself, acts you commit with someone other than your spouse, acts you commit using pornography or other property of satan, and acts you commit with your spouse.
The things the Lord has warned us against in this revelation, some of which I mentioned in the opening, are considered acts of immorality in God’s sight. A Fruit of the Spirit, Not an Act of the Flesh Sixth, what we do on the marriage bed must not be an act of the flesh to satisfy the desires of the sinful nature, as Paul said in Galatians 5: “For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ But if you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another. But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law. Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit.” (Gal 5:13-25) If you are fulfilling the lusts of the flesh, you cannot at the same time be producing the fruit of the Spirit. The flesh can never produce the fruit of the Spirit and can never please God. On the other hand, the Holy Spirit will never fulfill the desires of the sinful nature. The flesh and the Spirit are absolutely opposed to one another.
They are mutually exclusive. Pastor Oladejo says, “The marital bed is for matrimonial love. If it is not for matrimonial love, then it is sin.” All Things Decently and in Order Seventh, in the house of God, all things must be done decently and in order. When Michael Shigaba testified of his encounter with Jesus, he stated: “He [Jesus] said I should open to 1 Corinthians 14:40. It talks about doing things decently and in order. He [Jesus] said, ‘Heaven is an orderly place, a decent place. But some people are doing things anyhow in the House of God.’ He said, ‘In My House.’ They are doing things anyhow!” We as Christians must do all things decently and in order, including what we do in our marriage bed. The Straight and Narrow Path Eighth, the way of heaven is straight. I have learned this from the Word, as well as other divine revelations. It is literally a straight and narrow path, as the Lord revealed so clearly in Michael Shigaba’s Encounter with Jesus.
It is straighter, narrower, and more difficult than most Christians realize. We must Strive to Enter the Kingdom of God. As it is written in the book of the words of Isaiah the prophet: “A voice of one calling in the wilderness, ‘Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him. Every valley shall be filled in, every mountain and hill made low. The crooked roads shall become straight, the rough ways smooth.'” (Lk 3:4-5) “They have left the straight way and wandered off to follow the way of Balaam son of Bezer, who loved the wages of wickedness.” (2 Pe 2:15) “Who have left the straight paths to walk in dark ways,” (Prov 2:13) “I instruct you in the way of wisdom and lead you along straight paths.” (Prov 4:11) “In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” (Prov 3:6) “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” (Mt 7:13-14) “Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to.” (Lk 13:24) Also see Deu. 32:5; Psa. 18:26; 125:5; Pro. 2:15; 8:8; 17:20; 21:8; 28:6,18; Isa. 59:8; Acts 13:10; Php. 2:15. The way of heaven is not crooked or deviant. The road that leads to life is not lustful or perverse. It is loving and holy. The problem is that if our hearts are not full of love, then we rely on lust to generate excitement in the marriage bed.
What we (husbands and wives) need is to be cleansed and purged of all lust and be filled with the love of God for one another. Then we will experience making love the way God intended it to be. Watch the Videos Yourself I urge you to watch all three videos yourself and prayerfully consider what the pastor says. Please don’t make any final decision about this matter until you have done so, since I have only summarized him, and it would not be fair to base your decision on only what I have written without hearing him yourself. Second Warning to Married Couples Warning to Married Couples Who Practice Oral Sex Scriptural Basis The following are a few more Scriptures, in addition to those referenced earlier in this post: “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.” (Col 3:5, NIV). “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God;” (1 Thes 4:3-5, NIV). “Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.” (1 Tim 2:22, KJV) “Let all things be done decently and in order.” (1 Co 14:40, KJV). “For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.” (Rom 8:5-8) “So then, brethren, we are under obligation, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh– for if you are living according to the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you are putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live.” (Rom 8:12-13) Also see 1 Pe 1:14-16,22; 2:11,16; 3:7; 4:1-5,7-8,17-18. Clarifications After watching the videos, I contacted pastor Oladejo, and received further clarification from him on some of the things he said in his messages.
Hanging Your Spouse In the videos, he mentioned “hanging” your spouse during sexual intercourse (see Video 1 at 13:33 – 13:36 and Video 2 at 11:12). He clarified this for me by stating that he meant couples who engage in extreme sexual positions by using sex equipment to make their wives helpless, such as tying them to a bed, so it looks like the wife is being raped. He said, “Some Christians do extreme sexual positions seen in the pornography and buy equipment to make them look like their wives are helpless or being hanged [or] raped when they have relationships. Such things are great wickedness before the Lord.” Masturbating He also clarified that when he warns against masturbation, it is not only something you do to yourself. It includes masturbating one’s spouse to arousal or orgasm. This is consistent with the dictionary definition. He stated, “Do not use your hand to stimulate anyone to orgasm. It is masturbation done on you by your partner rather than yourself.” He warned, “Manual stimulation is masturbation. It is a sin.” In fact, the word masturbate comes from two root words that mean “hand” and “defile”. “Touching your wife lovingly is not a sin, but it becomes a sin when she feels like you are masturbating her. Our hands are not meant for such an act.
If your wife touches you such that you release without penetration, that is a great sin, so we need to be careful…I want to be very clear that when I refer to ‘touching your wife lovingly,’ it is not masturbating her for arousal. I do not say a man should do that. The Lord told me He detests all forms of masturbation.” A Message from the Lord, Not Man He also clarified for me that he did not come up with this list of sins himself. He stated, “I did not know that these things were sins myself until the night I saw this revelation. There was one thing that shocked me when I was standing in front of the judgment screen, the sin of masturbation, which is basically using your hand to bring your spouse to orgasm, appeared on the screen…I was told that God disapproves masturbation, even if it is done on you by your partner.” “I did not come up with a list of sins, but what I was told and shown on the screen. You see the voice of the Lord is audible once you cross to the other side. When he speaks, no one will tell you before you know that Jesus is speaking. So the Lord spoke to me in my mind, and I did not even need to ask, because I know it was the Lord.” He added, “I have waited six months to share this revelation. First, I gain nothing by sharing it. It is the hardest part of God’s work that He gave me to do. I have struggled with the Lord asking Him to even allow me just to teach this from the Scriptures instead of sharing the revelation, but He told me He would ask the blood from me (of those who go to hell because I did not share the revelation).
….to be continued.